You went through something devastating. You were broken beyond belief and have been forced to let go, move forward, and survive. There is no person in this world living this same story. There isn’t a single individual who can understand exactly what you went through.
The trauma you’ve been through doesn’t make you weak. It doesn’t make you any less of the strong, kick a** person you were before all of this. You went through something horrible and gut wrenching. What you have had to deal with wasn’t easy. And you know what? The healing process isn’t going to be either.
We live in a world full of expectations. Everyone around us has an idea of what our lives “should” be like and what we “should” want at this point in our life. The interesting part about all of these judgements and comments from everyone, they aren’t us and aren’t living our shoes. What do they know about what we want?